The main reason of everyones life, is to grow above the negativity of their own greedy, egoistic and negative ego perspective and to grow above the negativity of life, by formulating pure positive thoughts in good and bad situations, thoughts, which are good for you AND good for all other people in the world AND good for Nature.
This is the only way to create balance in yourself, balance between people and balance with Nature.
Transcendence starts with balance in yourself, balance in your thoughts. This balance is not an earthly balance. Because as you know on earth balance exist from two opposite forces as shown in the picture.
To be an extremely balanced person and you have 50% of the day negative thoughts and 50% of the day positive thoughts, you know this is not a definition of being balanced in yourself. Being balanced in yourself is to formulate 100% positive thoughts about good and bad situations in life.
Positive thoughts create positive emotions and feels great.
Negative thoughts create negative emotions and feels bad.
Every thought you have is an energy pattern, negative or positive. Have a look at this picture of frequencies and your emotions you choose, by formulating your thoughts during the days.
You see that negative thoughts create negative emotions and are of a low vibrating energy frequency. The positive thoughts you formulate are creating positive emotions and are high vibrating energy. How more positive thoughts you formulate consciously and subconsciously, how more expanded and enlightened you will become.
To attain transcendence you have to learn to control your thoughts in all situations in life. Most people when they encounter a situation in life, act on their already formulated subconscious thoughts. Most people have attained an egoistic, greedy and negative ego perspective that formulates most of the time their negative thoughts, which create negative emotions and feel bad. You can say they are on the automatically pilot.
There is guidance to help you find this path in life. Your human life is a school for the Soul. Did you ever wondered why intuition and conscience are always pure positive and always right and good for you and others?
Intuition and conscience is the voice of your pure positive Higher Self awareness, to guide you and to show you how to evolve in life.
Emotions are also a guidance. When you experience a negative emotion and feel bad, your Higher Self is letting you know, that you think something that is not good for you or other persons. That is how fears, worries, disappointments, shame, jealousy and many others start.
When you formulate all the time the right positive thoughts, you will never experience negative emotions, this is impossible. Than you have all the time to experience True Happiness in life and be in complete balance.
Than you will understand that this balance is from another immaterial pure positive dimension, where balance exist only of positive energy that vibrates on a low frequency (we call negative energy) or positive that vibrates on high frequency. When raise the frequency of your Souls energy, by formulating constantly pure positive thoughts, than you will experience love, unconditional love for everyone.